Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Why do we let the Media decide who our candidates will be?

Taking part in a televised debate can be a make-it-or-break-it moment for any presidential candidate. But what if you're not allowed to debate at all?

A diabolical Catch-22
As many of you are aware, not all candidates are allowed to debate in a given broadcast debate. This has been a problem for years. During the last presidential election both the Libertarian and Green party candidates were actually arrested trying to get into a debate they had been explicitly banned from!

Most candidates are excluded from the debate simply because the Media (big M) deems them minor/unknown/unpopular candidates. Well, of course they're unknown; they're not allowed to debate on national TV!! Bit of a Catch-22, wouldn't you say?

A most insidious and foul Catch-22, I would say. Here's why: We supposedly live in a democracy. It's not really a democracy, it's a republic (that's a story for another day), but we like to pretend that the people really have a say. The hidden reality is that the bosses of the major television stations are making decisions that define the course of our nation, and they're doing it from private boardrooms sequestered on the 100th floor of a skyscraper, and there's nothing any of us can do about it because they aren't elected or accountable to anybody but the company's shareholders -- ya know... other rich people.

Why should the CEO of CNN have such power? Why should he (and it's almost certainly a he) determine who will and won't be the next president of the United States before the people ever get a chance to vote in a primary?

Isn't that censorship? Isn't that more like an oligarchy than a democracy? Why do we let them get away with it?

Well, until recently most people didn't even know about the problem. And we didn't have the power to make a difference anyway. But things are changing.

Social Media saves the day
Social Media has finally offered regular people like you and me a voice. Sites like Digg, while not perfect, have enabled users to vote (you know, like a democracy) on what stories they think are worthy.
Two candidates, Ron Paul and Mike Gravel, owe most of their young supporters to the users of two social media sites: Digg and Reddit. Without those two sites neither candidate had a hope in hell of cracking the oligarchy and getting significant, objective coverage by the mainstream media (MSM).

Why does the media censor and ostracize certain candidates?
The candidates that find themselves locked out of televised debates tend to have a few things in common: They tend to be unpopular or unknown (but that is not always the case). Their campaigns are usually poorly funded (maybe because it's hard to raise funds if you get no coverage) and sometimes they have views that are contrary to the political mainstream.

But sometimes the political mainstream is very much at odds with the desires of the voting public. A perfect example is the continued prohibition of cannabis (you know: "marijuana"), an issue on which the politicians are most definitely out of step with most of America, which favors medicinal pot by an astonishing 78% margin. Net candidate Mike Gravel recently came out in support of legalizing cannabis, which he says should be for sale in liquor stores. For a mainstream, "media-approved" candidate, such a position would be political suicide. Why?

Perhaps the media has been shaping our political landscape for such a long time nobody can even remember a time when they weren't. Perhaps there are certain forces at work behind the scenes that determine what is considered politically acceptable and what is considered "extremist."

It's hard not to see the media as a controlling, suppressing force when they blatantly censor certain candidates. Ron Paul's performance in the recent Republican debate at the Reagan Library was hailed by many observers, but when it came time to review the field and do some analysis ABC News made a curious omission: Ron Paul.

He wasn't even available as an option for viewers to vote for. He wasn't mentioned anywhere in David Chalain's analysis. If not for a web uprising (involving Digg and Reddit) Ron Paul would probably still be excluded. When ABC finally backed down (after deleting a storm of comments asking, "Where's Ron?") Ron Paul ran away with a landslide victory in the online poll. The numbers are incredible (and no doubt skewed by a reaction to the censorship). Paul clearly has a massive groundswell of public support.... but in the corporate realm he has apparently earned only hand-waving dismissal and contempt.

What are we supposed to think of this? When there are 10 candidates at a debate and viewers are only allowed to vote for 9 of them is that not censorship? Is that not electioneering by a major corporation?
And when they back down and include the suppressed candidate and he wins the poll, how do they respond? They write an article in which they find people to scratch their heads and say, "who knows how this Ron Paul got popular. Must be sumthin' to do with them internets." Then they conclude he has no chance of winning and that this is just an exercise in teenage rebellion (or something) and wave their hands, content that they will never have to talk about him again.

Democratic candidate Mike Gravel has experienced the exact same treatment, but on the other side of the aisle. Gravel and Paul are both painted as "extremists" within their respective parties, so we'd can conclude that Paul is a right-wing extremist and Gravel is a left-wing extremist, right?

Not quite. Both candidates are populists, espousing "common sense" positions that many average Americans hold, but which are not endorsed by many mainstream politicians. Both are opposed to the Iraq War (and always were), both question Prohibition, both are wary of a pre-emptive strike against Iran and both are suspicious of the corporate media that excludes them from debates. In short, they have a lot in common with the public they are trying to represent.

Meanwhile, the Media's favorite Republican candidate, Rudy Giuliani, goes around saying fascist shit like this:
We see only the oppressive side of authority. Maybe it comes out of our history and our background. What we don't see is that freedom is not a concept in which people can do anything they want, be anything they can be. Freedom is about authority. Freedom is about the willingness of every single human being to cede to lawful authority a great deal of discretion about what you do.

[ Interruption by someone in the audience. ]

You have free speech so I can be heard.

Is that what most Americans believe? Wasn't America founded by overthrowing the "lawful authority" of the British? And this "Freedom is about authority" stuff sounds like a parody of George Orwell's 1984... but Rudy was being serious! "You have free speech so I can be heard"?!! Saturday Night Live couldn't parody Rudy any better than he does himself.

Which candidate is really an "extremist"? Which candidate is fundamentally out-of-line with the thinking of mainstream America? Well, maybe America really does want fascism instead of freedom, but the noise on the internet would seem to indicate otherwise.

Media Control and Manipulation
It seems like ancient history now, but it was actually the recent past when the mainstream media controlled every avenue of information and expression in this country. Nowadays we can talk about these things and send our message out to a wide audience, but as recently as 12 years ago it simply was not possible for a middle class person to route around the MSM. Suddenly most people can afford machines that are more powerful than a printing press, and allow common people to talk to each other without the Media's filter. That's why the Media is so upset about blogging and social media -- they're so used to having an absolute stranglehold over the conversation in this country.

The Media is used to controlling:
  • what information citizens receive
  • what information citizens are allowed to share with one another on the national stage
  • discussion and framing of issues in mainstream press
  • which issues receive national coverage (and which are ignored)
  • who gets to talk about the issues in the press (and who doesn't)
  • how political actors are portrayed (villain or hero or neutral)
Social Media smashes that control grid and puts power in the hands of the many, rather than the few. This is a recent development so the full ramifications are not yet clear, but one thing we are finding out is that the Media has been using their incredible power to highlight certain candidates and suppress others.

The media has a paternalist streak that is really out of place in this day and age. The Washington Post thinks they know best and they aren't afraid to tell you that they already know Gravel & Paul are not going to be elected, so why don't we just eject them from the debates already?
The Democratic debate in South Carolina featured eight candidates, while 10 crammed into the GOP debate in California last Thursday. Voters trying to sort out their presidential choices aren't helped by debates cluttered with the likes of Mike Gravel (hint: he's a former senator from Alaska) on the Democratic side and Ron Paul (hint: he's a libertarian House member from Texas) among the Republicans.
Thank goodness for our dear corporate masters. If they didn't come in any set things straight we'd have to learn somebody's name and what they stand for. MY GOD! The very idea exhausts me.

Sarcasm aside, this sort of thing has been going on for generations. That's why an editorial like the one above doesn't seem odd to them; this is standard operating procedure! The Media has identified the candidates they don't like (the ones that aren't easily bought/co-opted) and now they've decided to tell you, Dear Voter, than you needn't concern yourself with these troublesome miscreants. Big Media will make things simple for you by excluding them.

...But wait a minute. Isn't this a democracy? Don't the voters decide who is voted off the proverbial island?

Well, now you know better. That is not the way America works. America is run by a ruling class of oligarchs no different than the ones who control Russia. The difference is the American media freely admits that oligarchs run Russia, but they would sooner give their mansions to the poor than admit America is the same. The exact reverse scenario plays out in Russia where the Russian (government/oligarch-controlled) media is free to disparage America and mock its corrupt institutions, while speaking ill of Russia is a good way to get your broadcasting license revoked.

The awful truth is that America has long been controlled by the rich, just like most nations throughout history. They have remade American society and government to suit themselves and they have grown very comfortable on their throne.

What is an Oligarchy?
Stephen Fleischman, himself a former mainstream media man, tackles the reality of the Oligarchy in an article for Counterpunch:
My dictionary says an oligarchy is a form of government where most or all political power effectively rests with a small segment of the society. As Wikipedia, the popular online encyclopedia, puts it, "Oligarchies are often controlled by a few powerful families whose children are raised and mentored to be heirs of the power of the oligarchy, often at some sort of expense to those governed." Does that sound like the administration of George W. Bush?
Why, yes it does! That must be a weird coincidence. ... right?

I wish I could tell you more about the Oligarchy, but it operates in secret and prefers that most citizens do not even know it exists. In fact, by using the mainstream media the Oligarchy is able to program us so that even if we are provided with irrefutable evidence of the existence of said Oligarchy, many will still deny it and disbelieve it.

You're probably wondering "How?!"

Have you ever been called a "conspiracy theorist?" Well, it tends to end any meaningful discussion of the facts and immediately puts the onus on the accused to defend himself from the charge leveled at him. The Media has a few "magic words" like this at their disposal. It's amazing how effective they can be. Nobody wants to be called a conspiracy theorist... but isn't that just an ad hominem attack? It's no different than calling someone a poopy-head.

I suspect there may be more to it than that. In a future post I'll look into how the Oligarchy exploits its control of the media for fun and profit.

What should we do about it?
At a certain point we in the 'net community need to stand up and say, "To hell with you guys. We're hosting our own debate and we'll invite everybody!" We just need to set up a website with a group of people dedicated to hosting the cyber-debate; we'll get some buzz going and then what candidate will say "no" to a chance to get his/her message out to such an elusive audience?

The media can't be trusted to define, design and delineate the ground rules for our national debate. Candidates are having trouble getting their message across because of the media's filter. It's time to cut out the middle man.

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49 sick little monkeys said:

Blogger gary screeched...

Wow...excellent analysis. Fortunately the internet is unconsciously favoring democracy. Myself I'm using it to fight the very mainstream media you so well identified by including ALL the candidates on my site...

www.ExpertVoter.org

This is going to be a REALLY interesting election.

gary

10 May, 2007 00:53  
Blogger Vemrion screeched...

thanks gary. you've got an interesting site. i see you've even included the neo-nazi running for prez. i think that's good -- we shouldn't censor anybody, especially people we disagree with vehemently. it's good to let everybody get a fair shake and let their ideology fail on it's own merits.

...then again, i'd argue that Bush is a neofascist and he got "elected", so the failure of hate groups is far from guaranteed. still, freedom is the ideal we should be working towards, even if the nazis in question don't believe in it.

10 May, 2007 08:38  
Blogger gary screeched...

Hi vermrion,

You're point about the neofascist reminds me of this quote...

"Democracy is a device that ensures we shall be governed no better than we deserve."
-- George Bernard Shaw

At the very least it's a warning that democracy needs education to survive.

gary

10 May, 2007 14:26  
Blogger Justin screeched...

I hope more people vote independent this time around. Get the lame high-horse republican and dems out! Tired of games while poor just get poorer. To much talk, no action.

10 May, 2007 15:03  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

This is a great article, makes me think of a seemingly grass roots website called www.u4prez.com that is giving the common person a platform for thier run for president. I keep going there from time to time to just see what people are really concerned about, not what the media tells us to be concerned about. Thanks for a great and interesting piece!

10 May, 2007 15:24  
Blogger Spiridon Mekas screeched...

I am glad that you are tackling this question as well.
You might have seen the article in Washington Post yesterday in which the writer said that he wishes the entire debate process was dumbed down for him.
You can see it here:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/05/07/AR2007050701553.html

I wrote a response to it, if you wish to read it.

It is on: www.spiridonmekas.com

Also, would you mind if I linked to your blog?

Thank you for keeping democracy alive.

10 May, 2007 15:26  
Anonymous Cindy screeched...

It's like the old joke, what do you call a paranoid person? Well informed. Now for a little hope...

Unity 08 is a group that's trying to create a "New American Agenda" for the people.

10 May, 2007 15:27  
Anonymous Greg screeched...

From what I can tell, Unity08's agenda is based on being entirely politically correct all the time. And as we all know, what is and isn't PC changes constantly. Instead, I respect people who pick an informed opinion and stand by it regardless of mass public opinion -- even if I don't agree with it.

10 May, 2007 15:45  
Blogger Anthony, VoteWriteIn.com Founder screeched...

Hi Vermion,

In regards to your comment on http://www.votewritein.com (IRS Audit Action for Ron Paul), it's not too hard to find lists of people who've been in trouble with the IRS using Google.

Check this out: http://www.google.com/search?q=+http://tax.ohio.gov/divisions/tax_analysis/tax_data_series/documents&hl=en&rls=GGLJ,GGLJ:2006-05,GGLJ:en&filter=0

Click the first ranking (View as HTML Google option instead of PDF), then scroll to the part of the doc on Page 7 called "TAX enforcement news) -- There's a decent list of people who the IRS has fucked with.

I agree, it'll be cumbersome, but I still think it's a decent idea. I'm going to go ahead and try it with a 100 people or so and see if I can get any feedback from those people.

Will let you know how it goes!

10 May, 2007 16:04  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

I think an internet debate is a brilliant idea. Maybe it would even be a series of questions each could answer and submit. If they submitted or were posted simultaneously they could cut out all the bashing and we could just see what they all think. Maybe the internet can restore democracy.

10 May, 2007 16:17  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

With a cap of about $4500 per donator, the top 1% of the top 1% of the wealthiest americans can (and probobly do) fund the elections to a tune of 135 million dollars. This is chump change for them and they're a whole lot easier to target. As a result our government is primarily interested in serving the needs of the super rich. Hence, 9-11 and Iraq.

10 May, 2007 16:19  
Blogger 911TruthMusic screeched...

If you look at media consolidation over the past 20 years you'll see all the news we get has been reduced to about 6 editing desks. This is a HUGE problem!! When you have diversity competition forces smaller stations to run popular stories (they need the business!) and stories on TV behave much in the same way as they do in blogs. Ideas spread, etc. In a diverse media world we would have lots of debates and most media would be itching to share them.

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10 May, 2007 16:44  
Blogger Brandon screeched...

Great article. Sometimes it bothers me that people compare Gravel to Paul, because the main difference in my opinion (which you're completely free to disagree with, or that would make me a hypocrite)is that Ron Pauls votes are backed mainly on strict adherence to the constitution. So it's not that he's a free loving hippy, he's pro liberty. It's funny that people mock him as a gadfly but in every grade school we're taught that the constitution is the foundation of our law and country. That's a joke? People call him Dr. No, and make it sound like an insult. Try standing up for the constitution.

There is a great book called Free Culture, it's not directly political but starts out giving the history of all the major medias and how when they started out were considered rogue pirates stealing from the prior technology. It's more of a commentary on our freedoms the internet provides. The author founded the creativecommons.com open licensing group. An excess of law stifles creativity and freedom.

10 May, 2007 23:17  
Blogger Patrick screeched...

Is this a 6th grade lecture on the media's role in american politics?

America is a two-party system, and thus, realistically, news networks have a vested interest in showing the candidates that the majority of people will be voting for.

Furthermore, where is the proven evidence that presidential debates have the enormous impact on elections assumed here?

10 May, 2007 23:53  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

I wouldn't doubt if the rich and powerful find some way to suppress the Internet. The Internet has got to be the largest thorn in their sides of all time.

From the rich RIAA fighting a losing battle to mainstream media getting bombarded by people who are fed up with their terrible journalism.

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11 May, 2007 08:40  
Blogger Hunter screeched...

Great analysis of the Two-Party 'Sham-ocracy'.

Let's tear down this corrupted-to-its-core media driven charade and replace it with a healthy and viable political process that is inclusive rather than exclusive.

Having a two party system means accepting as the end-all-be-all as being the least inclusive option this side of a one party dictatorship. It defies common sense to accept a two party political process.

11 May, 2007 12:10  
Blogger Dr. Funk screeched...

so true! we should find a way to pick them ourselves, screw the media. also please visit http://www.serioushacker.com/

11 May, 2007 12:46  
Blogger fallout11 screeched...

Excellent essay, Vemrion.

America, sadly like most nations, has government of, for, and by the transnational wealthy elite. The mass media (aka organs of propaganda) is simply another one of their many tools.
The rise of the internet as information and social contact source challenges the well-scripted parody of reality they seek to project, and is thus a threat. Hence the current drive to "privatize", regulate, censor, and ultimate control the net.

14 May, 2007 11:20  
Anonymous Motorcycle Guy screeched...

Social media only saves the day if its used responsibly, hopefully no one grossly abuses it anytime soon and causes distrust in it. I'm sure this will happen soon enough though. Such is the internet.

15 May, 2007 07:52  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

The problem with hosting our own debates is that the parties currently in power will just stonewall any debate forum that isn't stacked in their favor.

They currently withdraw from any open debates just like they did from the League of Women Voter debates after Perot proved to be too much of a 'spoiler'.

16 May, 2007 10:46  
Blogger Godwhacker screeched...

Great Post!

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Blogger Bro Robin screeched...

Good analysis of the government and media.

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Blogger zac screeched...

nice article Vemrion. I couldn't help but think of Manufacturing Consent: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5631882395226827730&q=manufacturing+consent

Have you had a chance to watch this? If not, here is the plot summary from imdb: This film showcases Noam Chomsky, one of America's leading linguists and political dissidents. It also illustrates his message of how government and big media businesses cooperate to produce an effective propaganda machine in order to manipulate the opinions of the United States populous.


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CNN (you know, Clinton News Network) is on in most public waiting rooms -- not FoxNews.

Why are Dems (that obviously turn the channel to CNN) so afraid of the public hearing news and commentary from a perspective other than their own? In my experience, sometimes the remote is even hidden.

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メル友作りを勉強し文章や相手の心理を知るといいだろう
メル友そうやって作れるものなのだ
メル友作りには多少投資も必要だしそれであきらめてしまうと終わってしまう。
メル友が欲しいのなら多少はやっぱ失敗しよう
メル友本気で作りたいのならそれなりの心構えが必要だ。
メル友を作るにはそれほどスキルがいることだと実感してください。
メル友は楽して作れない
メル友作るには努力が必要それをクリアすれば
メル友を沢山作れるのです。

16 February, 2009 03:39  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

気楽にエッチができるセフレはほしくないですか?
セフレを作るには様々な要因が必要です。友達関係から
セフレに発展する場合がありますがそれは、いい
セフレ関係にはならないと思います。なぜなら長年友達として接しいても
セフレ関係が終わってしまうと、友達関係も終わってしまいます。いい関係の
セフレを作るには、やっぱり他人の割り切りで
セフレを作ることをお勧めします。ではどこで
セフレを作るのか教えていきたいと思います。
セフレを作るには
セフレ募集掲示板や
セフレを作る専門の出会い系サイトがあります。気長に
セフレを作りたいのなら
セフレ掲示板をお勧めします。すぐに
セフレを作りたいのであれば
セフレ専門の出会い系サイトをお勧めします。
セフレを作る場合少しネットでの知識が必要です。知識なしに
セフレを作る場合はだいたいは
セフレ作りは失敗します。
セフレを作る確率を高めたいのであれば
セフレに関する知識を勉強しましょう。貴方が
セフレを作れるよう応援します。

16 February, 2009 03:40  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

出会い系サイトでの犯罪が増えてるといわれいますが
出会い系サイト=ネガティブなイメージがつきすぎていて相見えるかもしれません
出会い系サイトでの犯罪率は意外と低くその他SNSでの犯罪率とかわりません
出会い系サイトで実際結婚した人やカップルになった人は沢山みてきました。
出会い系サイトは確かに危ない部分は沢山ありますしかし
出会い系サイトが悪いと決め付けるだけではなく、自分自身問題も考えなければなりません。
出会い系サイトへの正しい知識があれば騙されることはありませんし
出会い系サイトを活用すればそれだけ出会いが増えます。
出会い系サイトの使い方が分からなければそれだけ
出会い系サイトで犯罪に会う確率は自然と高くなります。
出会い系サイトで騙されるような人は社会でも騙されると思います。
出会い系サイトで騙されないためにはまず
出会い系サイトについて勉強し、犯罪に巻き込まれないようにしましよう。
出会い系サイトを使う人によってよい方向へともいきますが
出会い系サイトを使うのが下手人であれば、悪い方向へいきます。
出会い系サイトを利用する人には悪い人も沢山います。しかし
出会い系サイト中でも純粋に出会いを求めている人もいます
出会い系サイトでいかに純粋な人に出会うかはあなた次第なのです。
出会い系サイトをどう判断するかはあなた次第です。
出会い系サイト知らずに使って騙された人は悪だと決め付けるでしょう
出会い系サイトを知って使ってる人は中立の意見をだすと思います。
出会い系サイトは使う人によって悪くも良くも悪くもなるのです。

16 February, 2009 03:40  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

援助交際はかつて売春の隠語でした。
援助交際掲示板などの出現により
援助交際は世間に一般的な言葉になりました。
援助交際に抵抗がある人がかなりいるみたいなんですが
援助交際募集はいろいろなサイトで行われています!
援助交際は関西のあたりでかなり頻繁にやることができます!
援助交際は女子高生がアルバイト代わりにやったりしています。
援助交際は法律などが厳しくなってきていますが
援助交際に犯罪性がないサイトもかなりそういった
援助交際募集サイトで女子高生や学生は募集しているようです!
援助交際掲示板に投稿して男性と知り合う!
援助交際から始まる恋なんてのもいかがですか?
援助交際募集掲示板などで日々投稿されているのを見てメールをしましょう♪
援助交際専門サイトにはいろんな人がいてそういった人から
援助交際に発展していきますよ!
援助交際募集サイトは登録も無料でとても簡単にできます!
援助交際サイトの中には写メ投稿などもありその写メを見ながら
援助交際をする相手を自分好みの相手と
援助交際をするのもいいではないでしょうか♪
援助交際をはじめてみるのもいいではないでしょうか?
援助交際にはまるのもよしですよ!
援助交際にはまらないのも貴方の自由です!

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07 May, 2009 05:17  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

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11 June, 2009 21:04  
Anonymous Anonymous screeched...

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14 June, 2009 22:09  

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